Relationship

January 7th, 2009, 4:12 am

“Before you complain about your husband or your wife, think of someone who is crying out to God for companion.”

The line was from Engineer Eulalio Austin as Dexter A. See been written in a Philippine news magazine.  A photo copy of the said news was forwarded to me by the President of the school I am working with might intended of reminding how blessed I am to have partner in life.

Having partner in life is equally as important as having child of our own. Conceiving is every woman’s dream while man’s ego boosts knowing that he succesfully planted seeds at woman’s womb. This is the start of establishing family, of portraying important roles that man and woman should be familiarized and identified. The sacrament of tiding a knot is not exceptional; it is the foundation of successful relationship.

No family is designed perfectly. There is no basic international setting that has been designed in raising a family, it is patterned according to individual needs supported by different environment, traditions, cultures, and norms of the couple. The individual differences play important role in the family, it is the spice that both party should understand. However, adjustment is the key for the successful and lasting relationship. Every single minute we should adjust not only for the environment we belong but with our partner in life, with our kids and love ones. Every seconds they are getting different brought by many factors, and even ourselves, there is no exemption.

Factor like technology advancement plays vital role. I don’t say such provides evil acts for we know that one is barely responsible for himself. We are human, not a robot, which God created equipped with the ability to understand and conform to the dictates of the society and we should obey that matter fairly.

Computers, cellphones and machines are some of the things we should understand, things sometimes the root of a couple’s misunderstanding. I knew some couples who broke their marriage because of jealousy that caused by text messages, chatting, and even e-mails. They cut the knot that bind them for the sake of personal negative feelings, intuitions, angers, and the like.Not as simple as that, some partner uses technology for the confirmation of their suspicious beliefs. DNA testing is one of this, a proof that a child is a man’s child can be proven through the help of paternity test. Really, the technology is that good!

In any way, technology has its own helping capacity and a destroying feature. It is proven to be helpful in every area of life and devastating as well. However, whatever the feature is, family relationship is depending upon the man and the woman. Just let ourselves remind of what the banner line above is saying in times that we are subject to surrender our partner.

Pay me please!

January 7th, 2009, 3:26 am

Sometimes, as a human, we can’t hold our temper to burst against anything or anyone especially when we absolutely knew we are in the position to burst on. The scenario happened yesterday, when I accidentally flew my finger tips in a website page which is very much familiar to me every feature. What I don’t understand is the website address has somewhat different to what I used to visit, but sounds similar.

Due to my curiosity I left a message in the message center, complaining about things that the company has never been attended to since March last year. In my surprise, they acknowledge my message by sending an acknowledge reply direct to my email address, shoot to the folder specially designed to them.

For the second time, I visited the website to outburst my sentiments. The company has no longer attended their obligation of paying what is due to me after rendering service which more or less amounted to $6500. Can you imagine the pleasure the money could give to my family, it means so much! With that amount I can fulfill my vacation dream anywhere I want, stay for a week or two outside the office hassle and classroom pressure. There are numerous contact for vacation rentals to stay with, an Outer Banks rentals for example.

But what this company has done, they still did not reply to my yesterday’s email. They might not aware that the fee is badly needed, for personal use and other urgent expenses.

Spicy but cool

January 7th, 2009, 3:02 am

One of the big challenges I faced before the end of year 2008 was the hospitalization of my youngest kid in December 18. The doctor find out that her blood bacteria rise up to 17 counts exceeding from the normal of 5-10 counts. She needs to be confined in the hospital but my mother, as her guardian, refused, instead arranged for favorable set-up of taking at-home medication for three days.

On the 19th while we were enjoying the awarding ceremony for my eldest kid as Mr. Christmas in his elementary school, someone or somebody stole some precious things in my house. They just left me P6.75 coins at my bag’s pocket. They even got my mother and kids’ jewelries plus a day income from my mother’s store.

I was in the big shocked, I can’t imagine my life at Christmas and New Year’s day with only P 6.75 at my pocket. How can I survive?

In God’s grace I got through with it. What was we did was to prepare simply Media Noche meal at New Year’s eve similar to what we does at Noche Buena. The rest of the days I and my kids kept ourselves busy in planting ornamental and medicinal plants in ground despite of cold and windy season  we have in our place. We just kept our body wrapped with body jacket and jeans, our heads with beanie, and feet with rubber shoes.

It was really a unforgettable experience to me and my family, a great challenge and opportunity to reflect on. But inspite of this damaged we still believe that this is just a part of surviving, and this would add spice to ourlives.

Why me?

January 7th, 2009, 1:59 am

How long should I wait for the good plan of Him? How long should I wait to experience the fruit of my labor, to achieve the real pleasure, to enjoy every moment with my family, and to have peaceful nights in the comfort of His embrace?

I sat down in my bed while waiting my cellphone to be on; it has been cabling for the battery for seconds but it seemed years waiting. I was eagerly waited for any message appears in the window hoping that it would be something good but nothing displayed. Suddenly, I felt cold as if I was in the field drizzling down pouring every system of my God- created body. No, was not! Those were tiny drops of water from my eyes, and wind blown from the electric fan that made me cold.

Unintentionally, the past year played back into my imagination. The tought times I dwelt against trials, for being slaves of my own good perceptions, moments of truth in choosing which one is neither the right decision, and the obligations to resolve difficulties while shouldering all the responsibilities.

I almost wanted to give up and ask Him why. Why should He do this? Why me, why not others? Why? Why? And many Why?

Why should He do this? Because He loves me. Every things accomplished is something to offer to Him, as little as I survive despite of single cents in the pocket, and as big as the trials I have been fighting for so long.

Why me? Because He knows that I can beat it. I’d been into test for so many times, I am a fighter, as Mam Gie said yesterday - I believe in her. He wants me to feel this way as an assurance that He’s always behind me. And yes, He never let me down even the moments I am almost at the edge of sin.

Why? Why? He knows that I open up my eyes, that I will never surrender until I get the victory. As I type this blog entry, I realized how much He loves me for He uses my fingers as medium of His words to all the readers of this post. Honestly, I started tipping my fingers nothing in mind but as I go along words came accross, seems someone is whispering good things, dictating what should I type. All came from the guidance of the Holy Spirit. I felt relieved a little, fully understand the reasons of my existence. And the Lord uses me.

Topsy-turvy

January 5th, 2009, 4:21 am

After the Christmas and New Year seasons my digital camera is full of captured memories; I have looking up for the cable so to upload all the pictures but found nothing from the box under my table. The place has its usual view, topsy-turvy!

For the past two and a half months working in this institution I only once committed myself in cleaning, that was when the RQAT accreditors sent their intention to review the school’s courses offering. After that incident nothing serious cleaning was happened, and maybe nothing at all if only I don’t need that cable.

In the box are books, stickers, pictures, highlighter pens, spare internet cables, 3-in-1 coffee sachets and maintenance tools such as nails, piles, Delta faucet, and hooks. Hey, don’t think that I am working in garage, just in the process of reconstructing the building which all office things are stuck in the same place.

Winter shelter

January 5th, 2009, 4:17 am

I wonder how people from the snow cities manage to live and enjoy themselves during cold season whereas I almost avoided dipping fingers unto bowl of water. I experienced of keeping my three-day old smell by myself for not taking a bath and unclean my face by water but a bottled solution. I did not even go out for anything; buried my body to the bed just to at least be warmth. How I wish I have an electric blanket or anything to comfort my frizzy feet that foot socks can’t supply, or may have heated bedding or floor mats.

In time like this all the impossible things come accross anyone’s mind, but having such battery operated shelter is not impossible. Everything has been invented and ready to use.

Naputukan ka ba?

January 5th, 2009, 3:48 am

Kabi-kabila ang basura sa apat na sulok ng mga siudad sa Pilipinas matapos ipagdiwang ang Bagong Taon. Mga balat at upos ng paputok ang karaniwang makikita sa kalsada, balat ng sitserya at kendi, at mayroon din kung anu-anong balat ng mga prutas.

Karaniwan na ang ganitong kapaligiran hindi lamang sa Metro Manila ngunit maging sa mga probinsya maging ito ay sibilisado o hindi. At karaniwang tanawin na rin ang mga duguang kamay at mukha ng mga naputukang may katigasan ang ulo na di sumusunod sa mga batas ng pagpapaputok. O siguro ay mas tamang sisihin ang mga gumagawa ng paputok na nagiging dahilan upang malagay sa bingit ng kamatayan ang buhay ng maraming kapwa-tao.

Subalit ano pa man ang kahinatnan ng kinagawiang pagseselebra ng napakahalagang okasyon, di pa rin maitatangging ang mga putok ng labintador ay nakadaragdag ng saya at espiritu ng Bagong Taon.

Call and pay less

December 17th, 2008, 4:37 am

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Then you have to share this good news to everybody you knew. Tell them the beneficial results the Get800Today can provide to them, and the convenient it would give when making calls, inter-office or international.

This is the right time to secure one toll free number as the Christmas day is coming, pay less talking your friends in the United States, Philippines and in other parts of the world. Practical and economically wise, grab one today.

The Critic

December 17th, 2008, 4:04 am

I had mentioned many times in my previous posts that my eldest kid often critized my figure; from my maintained weight of of 54 suddenly I gained too much. As a little boy no one expects from him such kind of humilating words for his mother. Honestly, I did not felt anything against him, I know he was just wanted positive appeal coming from me. In fact, he shared advices, coming from his teacher and his science class, on how could I loss weight in proper ways.

Curiosity wise I asked him the reasons behind his mind should he wanted attaining back my previous weight. He was just answered that he wants me to look beautiful and sexy like before.

I never expected that line from him, he was just nine years old but as curious as adult one. Now I realized why there are lots of weight loss products available in the market today, for there are lots of conscious and concern human about their looks. I’m just thinking my kid would be a weight loss pill chemist when he grew up.

Notice me NOT (part 2)

December 16th, 2008, 3:36 am

Desidido na talaga akong panindigan ang pag-i-inarte ko, kasama ang gutom na pinagtiisan ko for the whole last night.

Like the other nights I spent my excess hours in a friend’s office after the class. Nagrerebolusyon pa rin ang puso ko, my housemates still have no text message for me!Feeling ko tuloy wala talaga akong silbi sa mga tao sa paligid ko, everyone in the family had already greeted me through text while those whom with me have not.

9:45 pm.

“Hi, may klase ka pa pala, kumain ka na. Atend tayo ng simbang-gabi.”

“Ano bang oras ng mass?”

“Ten.”

11:45pm, my husband called me up.

“Kumusta ang birthday mo?”

“Tapos na ang pag-iinarte ko.”

“And dali mong nagsawa.”

“Baliw, gutom na ko eh!”

“Binati ka ba nila?”

“HINDI!”

You see, guys, hindi talaga nila naalala na birthday ko kahapon. Pero di bale, may next year pa naman, baka sakali next year ay maaalala na nila.

Notice me NOT!

December 15th, 2008, 6:23 am

Aaminin ko na nagiinarte ako, baket ba, ano bang pakialam nila…hmp!

Pagbigyan nyo na ko ngayon, minsan lang ito mangyari!

I acted like a child since last night, opted to stay in my bed from 7:15pm till 7:46am. I did not ate dinner and breakfast, i dont care being stubborn, i feel like crazy.

I wanted everyone in the house notice my presence, the worst they did not. I want them to remember the occasion but then again, never! What the hell these people thinks of? They don’t remember what is the date yesterday, and the even date today.

In the office no one greeted me. I logged on to YM just to realized that no one remember the importance of December 15 to my life, except Rho.

Thank you very much! At least there is one person still remembering MY BIRTHDAY!

Shesimply enlighten my day.

JC Tiuseco confirms his victory

December 13th, 2008, 4:28 am

For the past three months I never get off watching Survivor Philippines edition mesmerizing by the manly aura of Rob Sy. Yeah, he caught my attention, he is the other version of JR, the singer who plays PATO at Lalola of Kapuso Network. But Rob, in my eyes, is the better handsome version, much have the manly image and sense. JR has his own wit, anyway.

JC is the man for the school girls. I know lots of women in the campus being carried away the way JC’s threw his smile, but the hearthrob has his own way getting at top, simply but full of assurance. Rob on the other hand compete silently, act by the dictate of both the situation and strategy.

Intentionally, I missed the second to the last episode; I opted to read my report for my Sunday class rather than watching the “outburst” of the fellow cast away serving as the jury of the survivor. At the back of my mind I know that there would have personal questioning process about certain matters that had been experienced in the island, from both the Jarakay tribe and Naak tribe until being one at the Chalam Tribe.

I have guessed that Nanay Zita, the labandera and may be because of her intention to win the attention of other cast aways preferred to be a wholesome Nanay while at the island, will open up her sentiments against JC for her belief that she was being traitor by her fellowmen.

I raised my eyebrows when Jace called JC a traitor as if he never did the thing first against Kiko. And Marlon, the devilicious man, seems to be cool and out of anger lesser than I expected the final night. How about Kaye, i can see something about her personality, something in the dark side.

Anyway, JC won the biggest cash prize in the history of the Philippine television reality tv shows, and a brand new Honda car! What a great Christmas for him. He absolutely feel the essence of the holiday by receiving something that he really perspires with.

Happy Birthday!

December 8th, 2008, 5:23 am

Holiday at European cruises

November 29th, 2008, 2:53 am

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Small cost but valuable

November 29th, 2008, 2:33 am

What Christmas can bring to us?

Is it simply provides joy or happiness, or adds peace and love?

Christmas is the time for everyone to sit down and relax, to bind with family, and reach out unreachable people whose waiting for caress, somebody to listen, and not to mention, someone to understand them.

Christmas is the time of giving, in kind and in cash. Absolutely, good-hearted fellows seek others to fill what is definitely lacking to their lives in any means. Some have been doing sharing fulfillments, graces, victory, and even the simplest  moments they treasures. Goods, t-shirts, simple pen, and personalized books are some of the things that they have spent money as remembrance. Though such token may be in small cost, but the value of effort had been attached might be priceless.

Acne treatment

November 28th, 2008, 8:02 am

What makes a woman feel sexy?

Is it by the way she dressed? Or by the way she carry herself, walk down the aisle gracefully, smiles, and swing her body with the tune of sweet music?

Is it through her intelligent mind, the way she speaks up, detail conversation and exchange current information in crowd?

Or by the way she presents herself, embrace changes and challenges in everyday life?

All of the above might have balance importance in revealing one’s sexiness, but for me one thing is important, that is keeping a woman’s body to the extent she possibly can.

Having good complexion, smooth skin under acne treatment, are some of the contributing factors to enhance sexy appeal of a woman. These factors are basic in term but the importance is quite influential. Having these basics may change facets of life, from down line to a clear view of new beginnings.

Thank you means………

November 28th, 2008, 7:43 am

Here I am again, starting coaching a newbie to create his own blog. I remember, there are countless personalities in the internet today molded by yours truly. Ow..ow…don’t get me wrong. Hindi po lumalaki ang ulo ko. Just sharing it with you. I likewise convinced them to start sponsored blogging after the moment I’d received the first buck I’d got from my paypal account, hindi ako maramot, I want others experience the same glee I feel receiving the first online income I earned.

Now that I have someone to coach again I am hoping that sooner a simple word of thank would extend to me. Hindi ako naghahanap, yun nga lang bakit ba in many occasions, people never say thank you for the help we shared. Look around you might probably noticed jeepney passengers who always disturbing seat mates to pass on their 7.50 coins fare. Have you noticed no one even say thank you. Nakakalimutang lang ba kaya o sinasadya o talaga lang walang pakialam sa kapwa?

Those people shared less exemplary actions towards kids. Let start changing ourselves, saying thank you make other feel important and sometimes it boost our affection and human kindness.

Worthy investment

November 28th, 2008, 7:39 am

Car insurance is worth to spare part of our monthly income, this is what i believe. It is as essential as eating our daily meal, or as important as financial investment for the future. However, the value of the car insurance one has to take must be under rigid investigation, some agencies have been claimed for efficiency, dependability, and transparency but later they’ll be living you out in the ground. Therefore, when you need to acquire car insurance make sure that the company you’ll be investing with has reputable reputation and proven track of record in the industry of car insurance.

Menopausal problem

November 28th, 2008, 7:17 am

“I am afraid to get older, I am afraid to get sick, to suffer from late adulthood women syndrome such as PMS and menopausal problem,” says a woman at her 40’s.

I was thinking about it for times, I wonder if I’ll be on the same agony when I’ve got her age. Fortunately, my mind has been set against on her thought; I know I can survive by he help of progesterone cream as I discovered its effectiveness in correcting and reversing the effects of fibromyalgia and osteoporosis as I added age through an online information released by UltraPMS dot com.

Such information helps me eliminate future problem in dealing menopausal stage. I guess, it would contribute greater self-esteem and pride to face the challenges that may come.

Hmmmm…

November 27th, 2008, 2:51 am

Excited.

This is how I describe myself.

Why? 

Because finally I have won the position I’ve ever dream of.

Need to elaborate?

Sure.

It is simply because He gave me what is due to me. After the hard works and perspiration the position has been designated to me without any violent protest from other organization.

Need some more? 

I bet you need some information but forgive me this time, I must go back to work otherwise the title might be cancelled.

Ask for help

November 27th, 2008, 2:45 am

Collide, wrap, upload! Those are the usual scenario whenever one has to move from one place to another, whenever a person has to transfer from old house to a new one. Yet it maybe sounds positively, maybe this is a sign of new beginning, an improvement, but it is accompanied with problems of moving. However, such problems have its own way of solving, moving trucks can be find anywhere to shuttle all of your things, from the smallest one to the biggest essentials you’ve have. So why worrying, don’t let wrinkles popping up your face, ask for help.

High Definition TV

November 26th, 2008, 5:53 am

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Best gift for your child

November 26th, 2008, 5:41 am

There is no rule in proper growing of kids; everything relies on the parents strategies in accordance to their experiences. Some are treating kids like property, as if they bought the child to accomplish things parents should had accomplished on their youthful years. Some are becoming unpredictable, deciding in behalf of their children, rule their lives.

If you are one of those parents whose never let your child live happily and experience what is supposed to experience, then you should try to balance things immediately. It is Christmas season so why don’t you give them gifts that they never expected to have from you but they deserve most. Buy the playstation 3; look at their expression afterwards to see the forgiving expression you’ll never forget.

Bad Marlon

November 24th, 2008, 2:15 am

I was watching Survivor Philippines last night, a time after few consecutive nights since the second semester has been started. I opted to watch the show after enjoying the late dinner in the ground floor of the house rather than taking the company of my bed. I have no other option but to do the same thing; my evening class ceases at exactly 9:00 pm weekdays.

Nanindig ang balahibo ko about Marlon’s (the bad of the primetime as the television channel tagged him) devilicious behavior. He was totally the evil of group. He sounds ridiculous, someone that have no manners at all. Good thing he was eliminated by the groupmates after having been noticed his negative attitude.

I wonder how this man survived that long; he was just the 12th eliminated survivor in the island. The rest might did not have easily noticed the personal motives of Marlon the reason why he stayed the camp chalam for quite longer time.

To the rest of the survivor, may they succeed fairly, but I bet JC to win.

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November 21st, 2008, 7:40 am

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Precious

November 21st, 2008, 7:35 am

I was being affected by my mother’s text while on the way to San Pablo City for an appointment with local high school principal. The message was something that bothered me so much, my precious angel had been suffering from chest pain for three times a day according to my mom.

Last day, while in the office, I received mom’s call, she and my angel were in the hospital for check up. It was just a motherly feeling causing to become unease until finally at 11:45 pm the doctor released the negative result. But she adds, the young girl must be under observation, when the pain get back she’ll be undergoing to-the-echo.

I believe God would help me, He’ll not letting my child to undergo such kind of examination, I trust in Him.

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November 21st, 2008, 7:32 am

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Cold night on Christmas

November 17th, 2008, 4:48 am

Getting cold at night, you might feel the same way I feel. A friend teased me about it, may be I am just missing my husband, she told me. In fact, I do, but the cold of November and December is another thing, it reminds the upcoming Christmas and the memories of Santa during my childhood years. I remember the days when my mother had tried to believe me and other siblings that Santa is real, that He will come at night while everybody is sleeping. He would left the gift under the giant Christmas tree silently.

As I grew up I realized that Santa is with me all the time, truly, He eyed all of my doings as my mother had used to threaten me whenever I committed undesirable behavior. He is wherever I go, followed me from the time I opened my eyes in the morning and close at night as I lay down in the blanket. I can’t denied the truth that He even goes in my dreams, play with me in my imagination, and tickle my childhood consciousness.
Cold nights, it simply reminds me of the birth of the Savior. His sacrifices and humble beginnings, His holiness and kindness.

Cold nights on December, reminds me of my husband, his ideals, his endurance.

Cold Christmas Eve? I wish God shall have mercy on me, have a complete family to celebrate Christmas and enjoy the Christmas eve while lying beneath the electric blanket.

Building muscle

November 14th, 2008, 6:23 am

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November 14th, 2008, 4:59 am

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